Confusing Joy and Happiness?

Joy is one of those words that has a different meaning for those who follow Jesus.
In the context of the dictionary, Joy is synonymous with happy, or even “happy-plus.”

But, happiness is short-term, happiness is dependent on circumstance, and happiness is rooted in temporary things of Earth. World Class Chocolate ice cream from Baskin Robbins makes me happy, but then the ice cream is gone. Happiness is gone with it. At Christmas, how many times have parents worked to find just the right gifts for their children, making them happy for a few hours on Christmas morning, and then watching as toys are never touched again? I know lots of people who are happy because it’s Friday, but then slip into dread as Monday approaches. Happiness is temporary.

When we sing of “Joy To The World” at Christmas, we aren’t singing about temporary happiness.
We are singing about an eternal Joy that comes from knowing Jesus as personal Savior. Romans 8:9 – and many other places in Scripture – reminds us that when we accept Jesus as Savior, we are “controlled by the Holy Spirit if you have the Spirit living in you (as believers do).” One of the fruits of the Holy Spirit, as defined in Galatians 5:22-23, is Joy. So, for believers, Joy is not some fleeting emotion like happiness. No, Joy is a permanent seed of our new character brought about by a relationship with Jesus.

Just like fruit on the vine or the tree, the Joy within us must grow and flourish. How do we let the Joy in our hearts grow so that we experience it more and more and with greater consistency? We do what God wants us to do. The Holy Spirit is constantly whispering “do this, go there, say this, press forward, fall back, say nothing, encourage, love, be kind” and many of us ignore it or we are just too busy – too self-absorbed – to hear it. But, if we would hear God speaking to us, telling us to act in love and service toward others, the byproduct is that we are blessed and experience a growing Joy as we become more Christ-like. Joy comes from drawing closer to Jesus by putting feet to our prayers and action to our words, sacrificing self for others.

Yesterday, I had opportunity to visit someone in the hospital. I love my friends, but I found myself stalling. “Wait on the end of the Panthers game.” And then, “People don’t want to be bothered in the hospital.” And, then, “I’ll check in with them tomorrow when I’m near that part of town.” But, within my core, I knew. I heard. “Go.” And, so I went, and I was so very glad that I did. In fact, I was blessed by going because I did what God wanted me to do. I experienced Joy by going, and then I experienced happiness by getting World Class Chocolate ice cream afterwards.

This Christmas, experience Joy by listening to the Holy Spirit’s call to love and serve sacrificially as God sacrificed His son for us.
What is the Holy Spirit calling you to give away or give up this Christmas for the sake of serving others? Will you experience Joy this Christmas or just fleeting happiness?
When Christmas is over, will  you be sad that it’s over or will you be filled with a growing Joy that takes you into 2012 and beyond?
Will I really sing, “Joy To The World” as an expectant anthem that because of Jesus’ birth every man, woman and child can have the ability to experience Joy?

A Case For Believer's Baptism

• Matthew 28:18 – Jesus claims that all authority in Heaven and on Earth has been given to Him. Jesus does not speak suggestively in his words to believers. He speaks with authority – His words are specifically instructional without room for question.
• Matthew 28:19 – Jesus says that disciples (followers / believers) are to “go” (directive) and make disciples, *baptizing* them in the name of the Father and of the son and of the Holy Spirit . . . (This is not a suggestion – see above). The word baptism has its roots in the word Bapto, which means “dip” or “temporarily plunge something” or “temporarily immerse something.” Baptism is about going under water (immersion).
•  Matthew 3:13-16 – Jesus was baptized by John The Baptist. Jesus “came up out of the water.” Note that Jesus sought baptism – it was not something done to him until He first sought it.
• Acts 8:26-40 – The Ethiopian Eunuch asks Philip about baptism, and what he must do to be baptized. Philip says (Broadman translation – v. 37), “If you believe with all your heart you may (be baptized). And (the Ethiopian) replied, “I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God.” Philip then baptized him – The Eunoch “came up out of the water.” This reminds us that Salvation is separate from Baptism, *and* must *precede* Baptism. Baptism, without salvation, will not “save someone” and ensure they live in eternity with Jesus. That’s why we must *never* talk of baptism as synonymous with salvation. Many people today, baptized or ceremoniously inducted into the church, may be living with a false assurance of salvation. Also, note, the Ethiopian sought baptism – it was not something done to him until He first sought it.
• Mark 8:34-38 – Jesus reminds us, “Whoever is ashamed of me and of my words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of that person when He comes to glory.” Believer’s Baptism is a beautiful way to publicly demonstrate that you and I are not ashamed to say that we follow Jesus.

7.      Baptism allows us to literally follow Jesus’s example of baptism. Is there anything sweeter than knowing we shared the same experience as our Savior?

If someone says to you, “Baptism? That’s a Baptist thing.” Now, you can say, “No, it’s a Scriptural thing; it’s a Jesus thing. Baptists practice it, but it is not exclusively Baptist.”

Spiritual Vision

John Newton wrote these four lines of the powerful hymn, Amazing Grace:
“Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound,

That saved a wretch like me . . .

I once was lost, but now am found,

Was blind, but now, I see.”

Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross was amazing. It was grace (undeserved forgiveness) extended to every man, woman and child who would ever live. It was grace that when believed (mind, body, soul, heart), restores us to a relationship with God.  It was a grace that when believed, physically and supernaturally converted each of us from sinner bound to hell for eternity into a sinner bound to heaven for eternity. And, as we were converted – seriously, it was a supernatural conversion and not just words on paper – we went from being blind to gaining a spiritual “eyesight.”

As a baby must gain control of its vision, believers must gain control of this new vision that comes, spiritually, from being “born again.” Sometimes, as in my case, this new vision can take 25 years to come into focus. But, when we gain that spiritual eyesight – going from blind to “now, I see” – the world and our perspectives of it begin to change. All of the temporary stuff of this world – everything but human beings – just doesn’t matter like it once did. And, we begin to shake loose from the shackles of it. There is such a freedom and such a peace that comes from saying, “All I need is Jesus, and beyond that, all I need is the love and support of my family and my friends. Nothing temporary matters *unless* and *until* I can use it as a tool to reach people for Jesus and help people grow deeper spiritually.

•  The workplace becomes a mission field;
•  The newly renovated family room becomes a place for small group Bible study;
•  The vacation becomes a mission trip;
• The Christmas party becomes a place of Christian encouragement;
• The promotion becomes an opportunity to influence people for Jesus;
• The sports team becomes a mission field – a place to lead by example, take a stand for integrity, and connect with people.
• Church becomes a place to recharge – a place to encourage and to be encouraged among fellow believers.

You see – on the lost side of the cross, we have workplaces, homes, parties, vacations, influence, recreation and church, but on the *saved* side of the cross these things are now seen with our spiritual eyesight – provided by that Amazing Grace.

The best I can offer you is this: *Do not* wait 25 years to get all of this in focus. Do it now. I can’t put into words the freedom, the peace, the joy, the love, and the patience that comes from seeing the world as a temporary place, but yet a fantastic opportunity to point people “this way, this way, this way” to the cross. My marriage is better. My family life is better. My friendships go deeper. The bumps in the relational roads are just bumps rather than pot holes. Worry, frustration, depression, anxiety, and temper melt away at the cross.

Life's Dark Valleys

In Psalm 23, David, on the run for his life and in a dark place personally, cries out, (v. 1) “The Lord is my shepherd; I have everything I need” and (v. 4) “Even when I walk through the darkest valley, I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me.” NLT.

We are guaranteed of walking through dark valleys in this life. They come relationally, they come financially, they come physically, and they come spiritually. Often, they intertwine with one another to be even darker. Financial pain can lead to relational pain, and often to physical pain. We can even begin to question faith through it all.

But, we see David’s reminder that the Lord is with us, and that is all we need in the dark valleys of our lives. And, David reminds us that we are walking *through* dark valleys – that there is an end to them. And, that as we walk through the valleys, we can do so without fear because God is close beside us . . . and He (and He alone) has the flashlight.

Here are six things to remember about your journey through the dark valleys:

• Dark valleys are guaranteed and they come to all of us. They are a byproduct of our sinful world, and none of us are immune to them. Some will be short, some long, some really bad, and some not so bad. A benefit of daily, personal spiritual growth through prayer, Bible study and the fellowship of believers is that we will be spiritually prepared for the dark valleys when they come.
• God is always with us as we walk through the darkness. For those who know Jesus, God is always with us. He will not abandon us. One way that God walks with us is through the fellowship of believers like our Sunday School class and church. Stay close to other believers; we are family – brothers and sisters in Christ.
•  God permits the dark valleys and uses them to shape us into what He wants us to do according to His purpose for us. Why in the world would a God who loves us allow dark valleys to occur? Because He uses those dark valleys to teach us, to break us, and to mold us into the people He needs us to be according to His purpose for us. The Bible is full of men and women who went through dark valleys to learn of God and to do great things for Him!
• We will stay in the dark valley as long as we resist God’s leading in our lives. God will use the dark valley until we are broken to His will for us. A dear friend of mine was a very successful banker, but was miserable in it. He finally came to a broken place, where he surrendered to God’s plan for Him. Today, he grooms and cares for small animals and has used that little business to share Jesus, minister to families, and help people immeasurably. He has never been more at peace.
• There is an end to the darkness, but that end may be eternity with Jesus. We are guaranteed eternity with Jesus, and so regardless of the dark valleys we face or the number of them that we face, ultimately we escape the darkness of this world completely.

6.      God wants us to share in the light what we learned in the darkness. Matthew 5:15-16 reminds us to let our light shine as a praise to our heavenly father. I would love for some of you to share – even briefly – on Sunday mornings about your dark valleys and the lessons of faith and hope you learned there. That could be a great testimony to others! I’ll bring the tissue.

Idols, Idols Everywhere

From Genesis to Revelation, man is caught in a struggle between worship of the world and worship of our Lord.
Genesis 20:4 – Do not make idols of any kind . . . You must never worship or bow down to them. (Moses restates the Ten Commandments in Deuteronomy 5).

Luke 16:13 – No one can serve two masters. For you will hate one and love the other, or be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.
2 Kings 17:41 - Even while these people were worshiping the LORD, they were serving their idols. To this day their children and grandchildren continue to do as their fathers did.

Matthew 6:21 – Wherever your treasure is there your heart and thoughts will also be.

An idol is anything or anyone to which worship, adoration, admiration or devotion is attached and replaces our worship, adoration, admiration or devotion of and to Jesus and the pursuit of personal discipleship.

Some people worship others, including family members. Some people worship jobs and careers. Jesus knew that people would worship money and the personal pleasure it can bring. Some people worship status and influence. Some people worship themselves. Some people worship – in a really twisted way – the church as an institution. Some people worship homes. Some people worship activities or recreational involvement. Some people worship sports teams or entertainers or even television shows. Some people worship their cars. The list is endless. I look back on my life . . . there were days and weeks when I never spoke the name of Jesus to another person. Every decision was made based on how my life or how the life of my family would be improved on this Earth. I want to confess to you: I was the Prince of Looking Out For Number One. I still struggle, every single day, with the idols that creep into my life.

• Satan is constantly bombarding us with idols, or he is using the things and people we love deeply as distractions to faith.
• Jesus is constantly calling us to Himself, to pursue Him, and to lead all of those that we love closer to Him by guidance and by action.
• Satan is constantly working to distract us from The Cross.
• Jesus is constantly calling us to anchor our lives at The Cross.

Following The Crowd

At the very heart of Romans 12:1-8, is this verse (v. 2): “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of the world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is.”

Paul is reminding the believers in Rome, and all of us today, that we are to de-prioritize all that this world calls important – influence, possessions, titles, bank accounts – and become living “thank you” cards to Jesus.

Have you ever noticed that most introductions and conversations come around to, “Where do you live?” and “What do you do (for a living)?”
That’s a dangerous indictment of who and what we have become.
Why can’t our first questions be, “Where do you attend church?” and “Are you a believer?”

Do you see the difference in focus? Paul is warning us that it’s easy to slip into the former, where we are consumed with behavior and customs of the world, allowing them to identify us and become our identity to others.

Paul is saying, “Don’t be like that. Be different. Separate behavior and customs of the world with behavior and customs of faith . . . and choose faith as your priority!” And, in doing that, fall into the arms of God; let God transform you into the person He needs you to be according to His will for you. Don’t worry about what you need or don’t need to do; need or don’t need to change – let God transform you; giving you “fresh eyes” and a “fresh mind” to discern His will for you. It will be life-changing.  Paul writes that it will be “good and pleasing and perfect.”

But, the first step in this transformation is recognizing the behavior and customs of the world. We are often sucked into those through peer pressure. We want to please family and friends and co-workers and neighbors, and so we slip into a blind following of the herd. And, we slip into copying the behavior and customs of the world. And, our children see it and they follow that example. And, grandchildren will see it, and they will follow that example.

My life brushed against lots of pain this past week. Spouses in pain, parents in pain, and children in pain. In some cases, the pain is so old and so deep that it’s been “covered up” and “privatized.” I was reminded just how bound we are to the world and this whole notion of peer and world pressure. Everywhere I turned, I was reminded how easily we “cave in” to the world or “hide from truth” when it confronts us. God wants better for us. He wants us to shake those chains, and allow His transforming power into the believer He needs us to be.

Can I encourage you toward a peaceful week?
1. Lead your family – even if your children are grown – in a personal disconnect from what the world calls important, replacing worldly pursuits with loving and serving our Lord and others, in the name of the Lord. Be an example to the generations behind you.
2. Mark each day with Bible study and prayer.
3. Be diligent in turning to believers for counsel – give believers permission to tell you what you need to hear, and not what you want to here. You need to see our class as a great support group, ready to rush in for encouragement and accountability.
4. Discern, from the Holy Spirit, your spiritual giftedness. How have your been gifted, and what is God’s will for you in using those gifts to grow the Kingdom? Are you involved in Kingdom growth? How can you use your gifts of encouragement or hospitality – for example – to minister to fellow believers?

Genuine Love

In Romans 12:9, Paul begins writing about love. “Let love be genuine.”

As the Holy Spirit comes to live within each believer, we are transformed to love as God loves. We should feel this push, this urge, this motivation to love both sacrificially and unconditionally. And, Paul doesn’t put parameters on this love – he says we should be “devoted” to one another. That means we are to work toward a sacrificial and unconditional love toward everyone, including total strangers.

You see it’s generally easy to love our spouses and children, parents, and siblings sacrificially and unconditionally. Almost all of us have sacrificed for someone in this network, and we generally forgive when wronged.

But, what about extended family, like cousins? I can’t recall sacrificing very much to love and serve one of my cousins.

What about friends? Well, I’ve given of time and money to my friends, but I’ve not sacrificed very much for them. I’ve not eaten Pork n Beans to send my friends to Outback.

What about strangers? Sure, we give to charities and maybe to the Salvation Army, and we help when it’s convenient. It’s not part of my nature, however, to sacrifice, unconditionally, my time, abilities or finances to strangers.

Several years ago, I was going to lunch with a group of Columbia pastors. We pulled up to an intersection and a man was there with a cardboard sign around his neck. The pastor who was driving the car rolled down his window and spoke to the man. The pastor then removed his wallet, and gave him *all* of his cash. When we got to the restaurant, the pastor ordered a cup of soup for lunch. Another said, “You aren’t hungry?” The pastor said, “I gave all my cash to the guy at the intersection.” Someone joked that he could put his lunch on the church credit card, but it really wasn’t a “business lunch.” Of course, we all offered to buy his lunch, but he refused that. I wondered why he didn’t use a debit card or another credit card, but it wasn’t any of our business. Looking back, and knowing this good man, I think he wanted to enjoy the blessing of the sacrifice. That we were spectators was more uncomfortable for us than it was for him. Finally, I said, “You know he probably took your money and went to the liquor store.” And, the pastor looked at me and said, “Our Lord told me to help him; not to judge what he would do with the help.” I felt about 2-inches tall; it was like Jesus was speaking through this pastor. I could feel Jesus saying, “Shut up, Scott.”

It doesn’t make sense does it? But, nothing about following Jesus; nothing about faith is logical. More often than not, we aren’t asked to understand or figure it out or know how the story ends – we’re just told to love and serve others sacrificially and unconditionally. That’s it. Believers aspire toward the goal to make this kind of love a part of the daily Christian lifestyle.

Seriously, I’ve been given this day. It will never come to me again. Whose life will be better because I lived today? How much of my life can I give away today to improve the life of someone else? Did I live this day following Jesus or serving myself?

An S On A Baseball Cap

Back in 1984, I coached a recreation baseball team in Statesboro, GA. Our sponsor was the Statesboro Lions Club, and our hats were royal blue with a block-style S in white, on the front of the cap. It was and is one of my favorites team ever, and I’ve kept up with many of those boys, who are now men with their own children involved in high school sports. I also liked that hat – royal blue is one of my favorite colors and well, the S reminds me . . . of me! J The hat also reminds me of that team and some of the great stories from that season: Sean Sanders’ home run when he tearfully jumped into my arms; Chris “The Weapon” Boyd, whose fastball no one could hit; Jonathan Stapleton, who had never played ball before and led our team in hitting; and Jeff Yawn, whose granddaddy “Snooky” was whom my youngest is nicknamed after. It was just a great, great season, great boys, and great families behind them.

I wear my royal blue hat with the white S pretty regularly, especially in the mornings around town. It’s not the same hat worn in 1984, but it’s a close replica.

Last Friday, I wore it to Lizard’s Thicket for breakfast. As I was leaving the restaurant, I passed an elderly couple sitting in a booth. I had never seen them before. The older man startled me when he reached out and touched my arm. He said, “That’s a nice hat.” And, I smiled as he held up his own hat. It, too, was royal blue with a white S on the front of it. I said, “That’s a great hat!” And, he said, “What does the S stand for?” And, I said, jokingly, “Scott.” And, he laughed, and said, “I bet it also stands for Saved.” And, I said, “Yep, it sure does.” And, he said, “Mine does, too; God bless you, brother.”

There are no coincidences. I was having a tough week, coming off the road and battling a bronchial infection while eye-balling my annual work in the church’s Halloween Hoedown this weekend. I was stressed.

But, I left the restaurant so very encouraged, and so very affirmed. We are surrounded by believers – just like us. We are called to encourage and lift one another. I want to be that kind of believer!

That little exchange stayed me with the rest of the weekend:

1.      Saved. It is the relationship above all relationships that binds you and I together for all eternity. We will forever know one another . . . eternally.

2.      Saved. It is an identity above all identities. It is an identity that trumps our names, our cultures, our heritages and our family trees.

3.      Saved. The Holy Spirit, when we listen, can discern when we are in the presence of others who are Saved. The same Spirit can discern when we are in the presence of lostness so that we can introduce people to Jesus.

All of a sudden, that royal blue cap is much more important to me than I thought it was.

Revenge

We are a society that loves revenge and loves pay back.

Oh, yes, we do. We even have a new Prime Time television show this fall titled, “Revenge.”

I love the Clint Eastwood movie, “Unforgiven.” Clint plays a retired outlaw, who goes with a friend (played by Morgan Freeman), to avenge a brutality against a small group of prostitutes in a small Western town. The women are contracting with Clint to bring revenge to the men who hurt one of them. At the film’s height, Freeman’s character is murdered, opening the door for Clint’s character to exact significant revenge upon all the bad men in the town. The movie won the Academy Award for Best Picture. Clint won Best Actor; Gene Hackman, as the worst of the bad men, won Best Supporting Actor. The film also received an Academy Award for Best Editing. It’s a revenge movie – applauding revenge for crimes against women and crimes against best friends. Who in the world wouldn’t applaud that? And, millions of Americans did. The American Film Institute regards it as one of the top 100 movies of all time, and in the top 5 of Westerns. We just love to exact revenge and to see bad things happen to others who do us wrong.

In my 30s, I made the mistake of going into business with a good friend. We were just getting the business off the ground, when life dealt his career and marriage a significant blow. Wrought with this stress and depression, he walked away from our business, leaving me a few thousand dollars of capital debt to pay off. He also sold some of the equipment for quick cash. To make things worse, our business plan put operating the business in his lap. I had no interest in operating the business alone. When I tried to approach him about this folly I suddenly inherited, he began ignoring my telephone calls and refusing to answer his door. I got an attorney – not because I needed one. I got an attorney because I wanted one; I wanted to exact some revenge for the wrong that I had been done.

Love Urgently

You and I are indebted to Jesus for the love He has poured on us, beginning with His life, death and Resurrection for our sins. Even today, He is constantly with us – through ALL good and bad – and He is constantly loving us. And, He is constantly sending people into our lives and these people love us, too. We are indebted to Jesus. The only way to repay that debt (and it’s never repaid) is to love and serve others. It’s the only way we can repay the debt. And, because Jesus’ love for me is greater than any other love, I am always obligated to love others – all others. [Romans 13:8 - . . . Owe nothing to anyone - *except* for your obligation to love one another. If you love your neighbor, you will fulfill the requirements of God’s law (you will not break The Ten Commandments)].

And, then there’s this:

Don’t put off loving others. Don’t put it off – not for one single minute; not for one single second. Tell your spouse how much you love her, right now. Send a text or an e-mail or make a call for no apparent reason except because you love her. Tell your children how much you love them – look them in the eyes, and tell them. Don’t say, “I love you . . . but I wish you’d clean your room.” No buts. No conditions. Just, “I love you.” Do it right now. Do it today. If you put it off, if you wait until the “right time,” chances are you’ll forget about it or discount it or it won’t have the same impact. No, do it right now. *Love is an Urgent Requirement.* You can also express your love through random acts of kindness or through encouragement of someone’s effort. Start with those in your household, and see how far you can reach God’s love into the stranger pool. (Romans 13:11 – This (love) is all the more important, for you know how late it is; time is running out.) In one sense, time is running out. You and I never know when this moment might be the last moment that we have to share love with others. But, in this v. 11, Paul is saying, “Time is running out because Jesus is returning and we want Him to find us morally prepared, spiritually alert, and diligently serving. (From NLT commentary).

Why all this high-pressure focus on love? Because, as you and I know, all long and healthy relationships are built on love. Love opens the door for us to talk about our faith and help people come to Jesus as Savior. The more we love and serve the closer we draw to Jesus, and the closer we help others draw to Him, too.

Be Ready

I grew up on Brookwood Road – a short little country road that intersected Georgia Highway 141 north of Atlanta. The intersection of Brookwood Road and Highway 141 was at the end of a very long and dangerous curve.

It was not unusual, especially in bad weather, for an unsuspecting driver to lose control in that curve and plow into my uncle Hershel’s cow pasture. Depending on the speed, some of these accidents were fatal; most were serious enough to require emergency aid.

It was not unusual for us to receive an after-dark telephone call or a knock at the door. “Come quick,” my uncle would say, “There’s been an accident.”

And, my dad would jump up from his recliner – or the sofa or bed – after a hard, hard day’s work and join other men to help. We were never allowed to go with him for fear of what horrific scene might be at the accident.

Be ready.

The Lord expects *all* of His followers to Be Ready.
1. Be ready for the moment – “like a thief in the night” – for Jesus to return to fully save us from this world.
2. Be ready for the knock at our doors, calling me to the emergency service of others.
3. Be ready for the opportunity – however flickering – to share your faith story, pointing someone to the Savior of the world.

4. Be ready for the Christian influence you and I have on someone who may be watching us, watching to see if our deeds back up our words of faith.

Be ready.
Paul writes, in Romans 13:12-14: The night is nearly over; the day is almost here. Put aside the deeds of darkness. Put on the armor of light. Behave decently, as in the daytime. Not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery (excess), not in dissension and jealousy. Clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ. Do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.

Paul is warning you and me. Most of us will never participate in a sexual orgy, but Paul is casting a wide net *and* showing how sin (selfishness) can cause every single one of us to be *unready* to serve the Lord and one another. When we are drunk, we are unable to serve; when we are lusting over “stuff” and “more,” we are unable to serve; and, when we are wound up in jealousy, bitterness, fussing, and worry we are unable to serve. From heaven’s perspective, sin is sin is sin – the bottom line is that focus on self (whatever form) prevents you and me from serving our Lord and serving one another.

Be ready.
We each have a personal appointment with Jesus, and we don’t know the day or the hour. When that moment comes, we want to be found ready to meet Him. And, in the meantime, we want to be ready to serve one another deeply, and for our lives to be a witness of our Love for Jesus and His love for us.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving. Tell people that you love them.